A New Year, A New Us

As of January 1st, our family of three all reside at one address again. (Praise God!!) We have started doing some remodeling and redecorating to make it look like a home & not just a house. Before the divorce If an argument would come up Bradley would always tell me this was HIS house, not mine. (Bradley bought the house a couple weeks before we met) I never wanted the house, but he would still throw it in my face. That's exactly how it felt too.. Like his house. This time it feels completely different!! Granted the house still isn't in my name at all, but it feels like it's just as much mine as it is his. Now Any time I say your house or Bradley's house, he corrects me and tells me it's OUR house. I used to not put much time or money into remodeling our house, now all I do is look for stuff to buy, furniture to have built, and paint samples galore!! It's such a great feeling making decisions as a team now. That's how we have to treat life, fight it as a team and not just as two controlling individuals. Satan wants to break each and every one of us apart. But if our God is for us, then who could ever stop us?? There are days it's going to be hard, God never promised it would be easy.. But he did promise it would be worth it. Every trial is a lesson learned and I am so thankful for those lessons because they have shaped me into a better Girlfriend, Mommy, friend, daughter, etc. ☺️